Gossip: Stealth Weapon of the Enemy

When it comes to stopping a fight, some of the most skilled members of our society in that area are bartenders. You see bartenders know what every church leader needs to know to be successful in church ministry at conflict management: A fights never starts inside the bar; bar room fights start long before they enter. And the best thing you can do to prevent the fight is to throw both of them out before the fight breaks out. Now you can't just throw one out, you have to throw both of them out. See if you just throw one of them out, well, then one will come back later with his feelings hurt, and the other one will get proud and you will have an even bigger problem. But if you throw both of them out, they will only have each other to talk to, and they might come back in later together as friends, and buy more drinks. That's "conflict management 101" from your friendly neighborhood bartender.

Conflicts in the church are no different. "Fights" don't start there, they start somewhere else, they start in the heart. And just like bar room fights, they don't start with fists, they start with words. So what does the Bible say about our tongue? It says it is "full of deadly poison" and "set on fire by hell" [James 3:8; 3:6] and "no man can tame the tongue" [James 3:8]. The tongue is such a small part of the body, but it is able to have a tremendous impact on church life. And if all we had were those statements, we would still see the massive importance of self-control of the tongue, but Scripture is very specific when it comes to the tongue and gossip. Consider the following: Commit adultery in a church and you get four warnings to repent according to Matthew 18, but if you gossip, you are to be rejected after the first and second warning according to Titus 3:10-11:

^10 Reject a divisive man after the first and second admonition, ^11 knowing that such a person is warped and sinning, being self-condemned.

What is of considerable concern is how common the sin of gossip is among most churches today. Consider the contrast of how most churches deal with the two sins mentioned above. At the first hint of adultery, we convene a counsel of the church elders or deacons to begin "Spiritual Discipline," but for gossip? Sweep it under the rug; it's so common we don't even worry about it. Here is what the 17th Century Theologian Richard Baxter had to say about gossip:

"The sin of receiving and spreading false reports of others upon hearsay, is now so common among those that do profess sobriety and religion, that all men should take heed of it in all company, as they would do of the plague in an infectious time. And now it is so notorious that false news and slanders of others are so common, neither good men's words, nor common fame, will allow you (or excuse you) to believe or report any evil of another, till you are able to prove that it is your duty; but all Christians should join in lamenting and reproving this common uncharitable sin."
-- The Practical Works of Richard Baxter, p. 361 [emphasis mine]

This act perpetrated by the tongue must be dealt with, it must be handled in an orderly and regulative way within the church. If we leave it and ignore it, it will hollow out our churches, rob them of their love, and present to the world an image not of Christ, but of the deceiver.

So we can understand what we are dealing with, the sin of "gossip" should be defined.
The word "gossip" or "slanderer" is mentioned 56 times in the Bible. These two words are used interchangeably when talking about "gossip." Another common word used in many translations is "talebearer". Proverbs 20:19 (NKJV) provides the following insights:

¹⁹ He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets;
Therefore do not associate with one who flatters with his lips. [NKJV]

A "gossip" or "talebearer" is one who reveals secrets. Notice it does not say if the secrets are true or false. Even revealing true secrets can still make one a "talebearer" or a "gossip"

Consider the words of Proverbs 26:20-23

²⁰ Where there is no wood, the fire goes out;
And where there is no talebearer, strife ceases.

²¹ As charcoal is to burning coals, and wood to fire,
So is a contentious man to kindle strife.

²² The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles,
And they go down into the inmost body.

²³ Fervent lips with a wicked heart
Are like earthenware covered with silver dross.

The "talebearer" is the one who "kindles strife" and where there is no "talebearer, strife ceases".
Also notice that the "words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles...they go down into the inmost body." This is talking about the impact that the "tales" have on the listener of the "tale." In the case of a "talebearer" the tales told have a permanent impact on the listener, forever damaging the conscience of one person against another. What a tragedy to think that we can destroy relationships and friendships by simply telling tales to another. We overlook this sin too much in the church, ignoring it at our own peril.

Listen to what David writes in Psalms 15:1-3:

¹ Lord, who may abide in Your tabernacle?
Who may dwell in Your holy hill?
² He who walks uprightly,
And works righteousness,
And speaks the truth in his heart; ³ He who does not backbite with his tongue,
Nor does evil to his neighbor,
Nor does he take up a reproach against his friend;

In this Psalm, David is writing regarding who is allowed to abide in the tabernacle of the Lord. David indicates that the "backbiter" or "gossip" is excluded from the company of the Lord in His tabernacle. Could some of the strife and turmoil that exists within our churches be caused by the allowance of "backbiters" in our midst? Could we be excluding ourselves from the "tabernacle of the Lord" by our unkind words and reproaches against a friend?

But truly the most condemning words against the "gossip" come in Proverbs 6:16-19:

¹⁶ These six things the Lord hates,
Yes, seven are an abomination to Him:
¹⁷ A proud look,
A lying tongue,
Hands that shed innocent blood,
¹⁸ A heart that devises wicked plans,
Feet that are swift in running to evil,
¹⁹ A false witness who speaks lies,
And one who sows discord among brethren.

Of the seven things that are an "abomination to the Lord" each of them condemns the "talebearer". Does the talebearer appear proud? Does the talebearer have a lying tongue? Does the talebearer harm the innocent? Does the talebearer devise wicked plans as they speak? Does the talebearer look for places to spread their tales, as they run swiftly to evil? Does the talebearer speak lies? Does the talebearer sow discord among the brethren? In every case the answer is: Yes! Is it any surprise that when Paul writes to Titus he instructs him to "reject the divisive man after the first and second admonition?" It should not be, but in our churches today, gossip is as Richard Baxter said in the 17th century: an "uncharitable common sin." This ought not to be!

Peter writes of it this way, quoting Psalm 34:

^8 Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous; ^9 not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing. ^10 For

He who would love life
And see good days,
Let him refrain his tongue from evil,
And his lips from speaking deceit.
¹¹ Let him turn away from evil and do good;
Let him seek peace and pursue it.
¹² For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous,
And His ears are open to their prayers;
But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”

There are a number of observations we can make concerning Peter's words concerning "gossip" and "evil speech"

First, we are not to return the reviling (or backbiting) of another with our own version of the same, but are to return it with blessings. Is this not what Christ has done for us?
Second, if we want to "love life" and "see good days" we must refrain from evil speech, turning from evil and doing good.
Third, when we engage in "backbiting" or "reviling" the "face of the Lord" is against us. Who would choose to have the face of the Lord against them? Instead, we should seek and pursue peace, so the "eyes of the Lord" can be upon us as righteous and "His ears [be] open to [our] prayers."

We can now see how damaging gossip is, we can see what an abomination it is to the Lord. We can see how it can destroy a local church, divide the brethren, do permanent damage to a reputation, hollow out a body of believers. Gossip is the opposite of compassion, love, brotherhood, tenderheartedness, courtesy and the blessing we are called to. Gossip is the stealth weapon of the enemy. It is how Satan deceived Eve to destroy her relationship with God and if you let him, is how he will destroy you and all the relationships around you.

There are five ways that gossip is often disguised, ways that we allow the deceiver to put ourselves in a position where the "face of God is against us", where because of our tongue, we can become an enemy of God as we do evil.

1. As seeking counsel. There are times when we must seek counsel about the sin or offense of another, but we must be extremely careful that we interact not out of pretense, but out of edification of the other member and out of love. Otherwise we not only place ourselves at risk, but we do undo harm to the other.
2. As a prayer request. For some reason, we think that a prayer can only be effective when it is shared corporately, but that is not true. Individual prayer is effective as well.
   
3. As bearing one another's burdens. It is not bearing another's burden to share their sins with another; that is tale bearing and divisive. Here again, we must be aware of the way the enemy would like to use our words to harm and destroy. There may be cases where we can bear another's burden by sharing with another, but those should be by far the exception, not the rule.
4. As sharing a concern or godly sorrow. As above, we must be careful when we share the sins of one brother with another. If God has seen fit to allow us to be aware of the sin of a brother, it is for us to go to that brother to build them up or restore them, it is not to tear down their reputation with another brother. We bring defilement and strife into the body of Christ when we gossip under the pretense of "concern" or "godly sorrow."
5. As speaking the truth. For those that are forthright and bold, this is the most difficult area to navigate. There are times when we must call evil for what it is, but there are also orderly and regulative ways we are to interact with brothers in Christ regarding that evil. Matthew 18 must be followed, meaning we must go to the individual secretly and privately first before we involve another. In addition, before we go with another, we should not prejudice our "witness" with back biting words before we go to the offender a second time. They are to bear witness themselves, not merely repeat our back biting words. We must speak the truth out of love, not under pretense or with an ulterior motive that will rob our words of their truth and fill them with lies and poison. The goal of speaking truth must always be to restore, not to destroy.
   

Now that we are aware of what gossip is, what the Scripture has to say about it, and how it can hide, what are we to do when we see it?

There are two sides to the sin of gossip: the speaker, and the listener.
As the speaker, the matter is simple: When in doubt, don't say anything. Or as your mother used to say: "If you can't say anything nice about someone, don't say anything at all. In addition, when someone approaches you and says "What happened?" do not take that to mean you have sin-free reign to proceed with an unbridled tongue and let loose with all the gory details. If someone offends you, go to them secretly and privately. An offense by a brother is not cause to convene a meeting of the elders or your Sunday School leadership. Go to them privately and secretly first, then with one or two witnesses. Only after you have approached them twice do you have cause to go to the leadership of your church for assistance in restoring a brother or sister.

As the listener, the matter is a bit more complicated, but you must never let gossip go unchallenged, not even one time. Richard Baxter said the following:

"Backbiting teacheth others to backbite. Your example inviteth them to do the like. And sins which are common are easily swallowed and hardly repented of. Men think that the commonness justifieth or extenuatith the fault."

In translation, Richard Baxter is saying: "the sin of gossip is so common we think we should just keep doing it." As we know, we cannot continue in a sin that is so devastating to the body of Christ. It must be rooted out and circumcised from our hearts and from our members.
Proverbs 17:4 provides additional insight into the "listening" side of the sin of gossip:

⁴ An evildoer gives heed to false lips;
A liar listens eagerly to a spiteful tongue.

According to Proverbs, being a "listener" of gossip makes you an "evildoer" and a "liar" We are deceiving ourselves if we think we can listen to gossip and have it not affect us.
So how should we respond when in the course of conversation, we start to see the first signs of gossip come across the lips of another? Scott Brown provides four different approaches to responding, although there are likely others. They are as follows:

1. The Sensitive Approach. "You know, I'm feeling a little uncomfortable with this conversation."
   
2. The Reflective Approach. "You know, if so and so knew we were talking about them like this, it would hurt them pretty bad, don't you think?"
   
3. The Matthew 18 Approach. "Have you gone to speak to them privately about this?" With the follow-up being: "If you haven't then I absolutely should not hear about this."
   
4. The Straightforward Approach. "This sounds like gossip to me. Stop it!"
   

Knowing how powerful the tongue can be, knowing that it is "un-tamable" and "set on fire by hell" and "full of deadly poison" we should all equip ourselves with a ready arsenal of ways to nip "gossip" in the bud. For the blessings that we can receive when the body of Christ is free of gossip and backbiting are more than we can image, and are what God plans for His people. Paul writes of the contrast between the two to the church at Ephesus:
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^29 Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. ^30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. ^31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. ^32 And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you. [Eph 4:29-32]

The church should be the sweetest place of all. The speech should be the most beautiful there, it should be the most like the Lord Jesus Christ: full of grace and truth, love and compassion, tenderhearted and full of brotherly kindness.

We know how the world solves it's offenses; it solves them as the fool, with backbiting, gossip, slander, reviling. But in the body of Christ, while we should not sweep the offenses under the rug or ignore them (for that is not love), we should also not spread them as rumors. We would do well to remember the words of James:

But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. ^15 This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. ^16 For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there. [James 3:14]

In this passage, James paints a picture of the world, that is "self-seeking" that is full of "bitter envy" that is "sensual, demonic." But those behaviors can also exist in the church, if we are not aware of the dangers of the sin of gossip.

No, in the body of Christ, we must pursue the "wisdom that is from above" that is "first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy. Now the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace." [James 3:17-18]

But no study of the destructive sin of gossip would be complete without including Ecclesiastes 7:21-22:

²¹ Also do not take to heart everything people say,
Lest you hear your servant cursing you.
²² For many times, also, your own heart has known
That even you have cursed others.

There will be times that others will gossip about you, backbite about you, perhaps even attempt to destroy you, but when those times occur, remember the wise words of Solomon; don't wear your feelings on your sleeve. In the body of Christ we are called to forgive, not condemn, we are to be full of peace, not of bitterness, we are to model Christ, not the flesh.

Charles H. Spurgeon provided one of the best overviews on gossip and how we should approach it:

Maintain a blind eye and a deaf ear. You cannot stop people's tongues, and therefore the best thing is to stop your own ears and never mind what is spoken. He will find that even those who live with him are not always singing his praises, and that when he has displeased his most faithful servants, they have, in the heat of the moment, spoken fierce words which it would be better for him not to have heard.
The blind eye and the deaf ear will come in exceedingly well in connection with the gossips of the place. Every church, and, for the matter of that, every village and family, is plagued with certain Mrs. Grundys, Who drink tea and talk vitriol. They are never quiet, but buzz around to the great annoyance of those who are devout and practical. No one needs to look far for perpetual motion, he has only to watch their tongues. At tea-meetings, Dorcas meetings, and other gatherings, they practice vivisection upon the characters of their neighbors, and of course they are eager to try their knives upon the minister, the minister’s wife, the minister’s children, the
minister’s wife’s bonnet, the dress of the minister’s daughter, and how many new ribbons she has worn for the last six months, and so on ad infinitum. There are also certain persons who are never so happy as when they are “grieved to the heart” to have to tell the minister that Mr. A. is a snake in the grass, that he is quite mistaken in thinking so well of Misters B and C., and that. they have heard quite “promiscuously” that Mr. D. and his wife are badly matched. Then follows a long string about Mrs. E., who says that she and Mrs. F. overheard Mrs. G. say to Mrs. H. that Mrs. J. should stay and that Mr. K. and Miss L. were going to move from the chapel to hear Mr. M., and all because of what old N. said of young O. about Miss P.
Never listen to such people.

What wonderful words, but the final words he gives in that article provide the true insight:

I have one blind eye and one deaf ear, and they are the best eye and ear that I have!

May each of us consider the power of our tongue, may we each take to heart the sweet words of Scripture. May we each be pure, peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits as we grow in the knowledge of our Saviour and Lord Jesus Christ, one with another as brothers and sisters in Christ.

Government Schools: What does the Bible say?

"Public School vs. Home School"
Bring that topic up in your Sunday School class and watch the sparks fly. As a society, we know how important our children are; they are our future. As Christians we also know how important they are: they aren't ours, they are on "loan" to us by God, and He has given us some specific instructions for them.

That is the reason for the "sparks." No matter whether you are a firm believer that "home schooling" is the only way to go, or that your "children must be 'salt and light' in the public school" the topic is close to your emotions. Like a mother bear over her cubs, if someone tries to get between you and your children, your hackles go up.

But we can't just ignore the topic because it is difficult; that would be like the early church not tackling "meat sacrificed to idols" or "circumcision of Gentiles". We just have to be careful when we address it, and ensure that we are open to the leading of the Holy Spirit when we are confronted with a fact contrary to our own beliefs. [See my article on Worldviews for more details on why this is so important]

Before we dive into this topic, we should look at what the Scripture says about our children, and their education.

Contrary to what many people (Christians) may tell you, the Bible is not silent when it comes to the education of our children. In fact, it is quote loud and vocal about it. Consider the following:

In Deuteronomy 6:1-9, Moses stated:

“Now this is the commandment, and these are the statutes and judgments which the Lord your God has commanded to teach you, that you may observe them in the land which you are crossing over to possess, ^2 that you may fear the Lord your God, to keep all His statutes and His commandments which I command you, you and your son and your grandson, all the days of your life, and that your days may be prolonged. ^3 Therefore hear, O Israel, and be careful to observe it, that it may be well with you, and that you may multiply greatly as the Lord God of your fathers has promised you— ‘a land flowing with milk and honey.’

^4 “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one! ^5 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength.

^6 “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. ^7 You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. ^8 You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. ^9 You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

Psalm 78:5-8 outlines a perfect example of what happens when we reject God, His teaching, and His ways. When we reject God, we "forget the works of God" and become "stubborn and rebellious":

5) For He established a testimony in Jacob,
And appointed a law in Israel,
Which He commanded our fathers,
That they should make them known to their children;
6) That the generation to come might know them,
The children who would be born,
That they may arise and declare them to their children,
7) That they may set their hope in God,
And not forget the works of God,
But keep His commandments;
8) And may not be like their fathers,
A stubborn and rebellions generation,
A generation that did not set its heart aright,
And whose spirit was not faithful to God. - Psalm 78:5-8

After Moses completes the re-telling of the Law to the nation of Israel, he gives them this final command and admonition in Deut 32:46-47:

"46)Set your hearts on all the words which I testify among you today, which you shall command your children to be careful to observe -- all the words of this law. 47) For it is not a futile thing for you, because it is your life." - Deut 32:46-47

Joel 1:2-3 provides the perspective of the importance of being "multi-generational" in our communication of God's Truth to our children and grand-children:

2) Hear this, you elders,
And give ear, all you inhabitants of the land!
Has anything like this happened in your days,
Or even in the days of your fathers?
3) Tell your children about it,
Let your children tell their children,
And their children another generation.

And we are all familiar with this passage from Paul to the Ephesians, found in Ephesians 6:4:

"And you fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord." - Eph 6:4

In addition, Jesus Christ provides perfect insight when He explains in Luke 6:40:

"A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone who is perfectly trained will be like his teacher"

There can be no doubt: The Bible doesn't just "request" or "suggest" that we train and teach our children in the ways of the Lord, it commands it. And even if you have a hard time seeing or wanting to "believe" that it is really that clear, you can't deny that to a Christian, providing their children a decidedly "Christian" education would be a "good" thing to do, and according to James 4:17: "to him who knows to do good and does not do it, to him it is sin."

The question for Christians today should not be: "Is Home Schooling or private Christian schooling the only way to provide a 'Christian education'?" but instead should be, "Will I honestly be able to state to my Lord and Savior when I stand before Him that I believed my children received a 'Christian education' in a government school where teaching 'Christ' wasn't just forbidden, but was mocked?".
That is the question we must all ask ourselves.

If we can't answer that with an affirmative and confident "Yes!" then what are we thinking gambling with our children's lives?

The psalmist provides exceptional insight into this in Psalms 1:

1 Blessed is the man
Who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly,
Nor stands in the path of sinners,
Nor sits in the seat of the scornful;
2 But his delight is in the law of the Lord,
And in His law he meditates day and night.
3 He shall be like a tree
Planted by the rivers of water,
That brings forth its fruit in its season,
Whose leaf also shall not wither;
And whatever he does shall prosper.
4 The ungodly are not so,
But are like the chaff which the wind drives away.
5 Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment,
Nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous.
6 For the Lord knows the way of the righteous,
But the way of the ungodly shall perish.

Putting our children in government schools is causing them to "walk in the counsel of the ungodly," to "stand in the path of sinners", to "sit in the seat of the scornful."

There is no excuse. The Scriptures are clear. We are commanded to provide our children with a Christian education. Not doing so puts our children at risk, and invites God's judgment upon our own lives.

While the church sleeps...

I attach an article that should be the focal point of discussion in churches all across America, and yet I doubt even 1/10 of 1% of pastors will even be aware of it, and of those aware of it, less will talk about it, and of those that talk about it, less will *do* anything about it.

Pastor’s in America have ignored Peter’s warning; they are not sober [in the Greek, this literally means “to save your mind”; from the root words: “sozo” and “phren”], they are not vigilant, and while the church sleeps, “our adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.” [1 Pet 5:8] And many has he already devoured.

Sometimes people wonder why I am so passionate and vehement about my convictions. I wish I could honestly say it is only because I am a “strict adherent to God’s Word.” While that is a major factor, many times it is just out of plain abject fear; that what is being perpetrated against Christians in other countries will come here. Not because I would be afraid of the persecution personally, but because my children are innocent (and No, I’m not converting to Pelagianism, I realize they were born sinners. I am using the word “innocent” in the finite sense known to man) and yet that innocence could be taken from them not because of my direct actions, but because of the actions (and inactions) of those around me who as Paul says, have had “their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart.” [Eph 4:18]

This is not an issue of “faith;” I am well aware that God can do what He wants, when He wants, however He wants, with my help, without my help, in spite of my help. “Faith” that God can act is not enough. This is a matter of personal holiness. In 2 Peter 1:5-7, Peter instructs us: “giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love.”

It is my prayer and my devotion that those in the church that are “blind” will have their eyes opened, that those that sit among us and claim “Christ as Lord” will have their “darkened understanding” bathed in the Light of God’s Word, that they will recognize that being a friend of the world is to be an enemy of God.

We live in a pivotal time, where “…some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron.” [1 Tim 4:1-2] We all must make a choice: God or Man. That choice will pit us against the world, and as the world creeps into our church, it will pit us against those we share a pew with. “But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your forefathers served beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” [Joshua 24:15]

German Court Keeps Five Kids Because Parents are Homeschoolers

August 1, 2008

http://www.hslda.org/hs/international/Germany/200808010.asp

A homeschooling family in Southern Germany spent six hours in a grueling German Family Court session this week with the hopes of regaining custody of their six homeschooled children, who have been held in state custody since January. After the long and confusing session, the Gorbers regained custody of their 3-year-old son. The judge, meanwhile, retained custody of five other Gorber children now being kept in foster care and youth homes pending a court-ordered psychological evaluation of the parents. The court did allow increased visitation for some of the children up from one hour every two weeks that had been permitted since the children were seized in a surprise raid by the youth welfare office (“Jugendamt”) and police.

In January of 2008, Jugendamt and police officials surrounded the German home of the family while Mr. Gorber visited his wife at a local hospital where she had been admitted due to complications from her pregnancy with her ninth child. The oldest son, age 21, and a daughter, age 20, were not taken by the authorities, but all the other children were removed despite their repeated protests.

The siblings reported that the 7-year-old was gripped around the waist by a youth home music teacher, dragged kicking and screaming across the courtyard and thrown into a van. The terrified 3-year-old clung to his 20-year-old sister so tightly that even the police and Jugendamt could not separate them. Both had to be taken to the youth home, where at last the little fellow’s strength gave out and he could be taken into custody.

The children then received psychological exams which all reported that they were normal and well-functioning. Although these evaluations attested to appropriate parenting, the judge indicated that he was unwilling to allow the other children, all of school age, to return home because he did not believe the father’s assurances that he would enroll the children in school.

Someone who attended the six-hour hearing described the scene as “bedlam in the courtroom, without any attempt by the judge to impose discipline. The parties kept interrupting each other and everyone spoke at once.” Some of the children have reported that their court-appointed attorneys said they will fight to keep them in foster care despite the children’s firmly stated desire to return home to their parents.

Many in Europe are critical of Germany’s Jugendamt. Germany has Europe’s highest incidence of removing children from their homes. A recent article in Germany's Zeitung newspaper showed figures indicating that the removal of children from their homes was up 12.5% this year in Germany while the number of abused children remained the same.

Opponents have accused the child welfare system in Germany of corruption driven by exorbitant payments by the government to children’s homes and foster care providers. This “youth welfare industry” is financed by a 21 billion euro budget. The local operating youth welfare committees include privately owned and for-profit children’s care institutions who participate with legal sanction on the committees with two-fifths of the total vote. No other child welfare system in the world is known to allow this type of intermingling between government and commercial enterprises. Such an intermingling would appear to create a serious conflict of interest.

This is of particular concern to homeschooling families in Germany in light of court decisions and a recent change to the federal youth welfare law that was signed by German President Roland Koch on July 5 of this year. The law, BGB 1666, establishes the standard by which family courts are to determine whether custody of parents can be taken away. The law was changed to make it easier for children to be removed by the Jugendamt when the children are “endangered.” But endangerment is not defined in the law. The highest German courts have ruled that homeschooling is not tolerated because it creates “parallel societies” and is an abuse of parent’s rights. Administrative agencies and courts have stated that the failure to send children to school is by definition “endangerment.”

Until last year, homeschooling families had mostly been harassed with exorbitant fines. This year however, Rosemarie and Juergen Dudek of Archfeldt, Germany were sentenced to three months each in prison for homeschooling. In a previous family court case involving the Dudeks, the judge declined to take away the parental rights of the parents. It was thought that the Dudeks cared for and educated their children too well to justify penal removal of the children under the legal clause “misuse of parental authority.” During the Dudek’s criminal trial the judge ordered a 900 euro fine against the family for not sending their children to school. Not satisfied with this “lenient” sentence, local State Prosecutor Herwig Mueller told Mr. Dudek “you won’t have to worry about paying the fine, because I’m going to send you to jail.” His appeal of the fine resulted in the latest prison sentence for Mr. And Mrs. Dudek.

More homeschooling families have fled Germany as a result of this persecution, as it now appears that family court judges and the Jugendamt are ready and willing to take children away from their parents simply because they are being homeschooled. Nevertheless, “We are greatly encouraged by the thoughts and prayers of American homeschoolers,” said Mr. Dudek in a recent phone conversation with HSLDA Staff Attorney Michael Donnelly. “It gives us hope to know that there are people who have the freedom to educate their own children at home. We so appreciate the letters and notes of encouragement. These letters help us maintain our focus and in seeking God’s will for our family.”

These cases are drawing attention within Germany and across Europe.

Kathy Sinnott, a European parliament member from Ireland, criticized Germany’s treatment of homeschooling and the way the Jugendamt treat non-German families residing in Germany. In a recent press release, Sinnot said “…Germany’s approach to home schooling compromises this [European law on mobility] and forces families to choose between a job and the best interests of the children. The need for family-friendly employment policies must be recognized throughout the EU. We need to have flexibility in the education of children temporarily resident because of work. There is also an issue around the attitude to non-German families in the German children’s courts. I hope the dialogue between the Commission and the German State will resolve this discriminatory situation.”

A member of the SPD party in Bavaria, Germany also stated in a recent radio interview that that “Imprisonment or fines in this matter are absolutely excessive in my opinion, because homeschooling can provide very high-quality outcomes. This topic is definitely one which we must work through politically. There can be no black-white declarations, but we must discuss this without ideological blinders on.” Although encouraging, it will take more than one or two members of state legislatures to effect the needed change.

Donnelly, during a recent trip to Germany to encourage homeschoolers and to work for change, met with the Gorber family as well as with policy and lawmakers at the European Union and in the German State of Baden Wurttemberg.

“This poor, simple family is being crushed by unbearable pressure from the German state’s police power, primarily because they are homeschoolers,” Donnelly said. “This father of nine, a woodworker, told me how difficult this is and the incredible strain it’s placing on his children, his wife and himself. As longtime homeschoolers, they have irritated the local youth authorities who needed only the pretext of the hospitalization of the mother and other exaggerated claims to seize the children.” Donnelly noted that “while there are some policy makers in some of the states who are willing to take on this important issue of human rights, most couldn’t be bothered. It is going to take increased public awareness and international pressure to confront German Society with this outrageous behavior. Unfortunately it looks like more parents will have to go to jail and more children taken into state custody before German public policy makers wake up and do something. It’s very disturbing that Germany can get away with this kind of behavior with such little public comment by other Western governments.”

HSLDA is committed to working with national and international ministries and associations to support German homeschoolers in their fight to be free from persecution. The right of parents to direct the upbringing and education of their children is a fundamental human right, and HSLDA is grateful for the support of its members to defend this freedom here in the United States and abroad.

If you would like to send a note of encouragement to the Gorber Family write to them at:

Family Gorber
Max-Mutscheller-Str.2
88662 Überlingen
Germany

What is a Worldview?

The topic of "worldview" is a matter of no small importance among evangelicals in America today. I think the fact that it is an issue today is of no small importance itself. The question could be asked: why was worldview not an issue 100 years ago, or 200 years ago? I would posit the following answer: 100 years ago the majority of those in America subscribed to a fundamentally Biblical worldview, whether Atheist, Christian, Jehovah's Witness or Mormon. In other words, I may not agree with an Atheist about the existence of God, but we would share a belief in the importance of good moral character, predominantly based on the Bible. We would both agree that lying, stealing, adultery, homosexuality were all morally wrong. The reasons whereby we might find them wrong would be different (the Christian based upon the Bible, and Atheist based upon a conventional "code") but we agreed they were wrong nonetheless.
Now fast-forward to today. The majority of Americans no longer possess a "fundamentally Biblical worldview", in fact, the majority of Christians no longer possess a Biblical Worldview (according to George Barna, it is less than 10%). So what happened? How did we drift so far?

Before we can even look at the "drift" we must first at least arrive at a definition of "worldview".

a worldview is a network of presuppositions that are not tested by natural science and in terms of which all experience is related and interpreted.

Notice some of they key components of that definition:
1) "a network of presupposition that are not tested by natural science"
That means that when a fact shows up that contradicts our worldview, we are much more likely to adjust our opinion of that fact, than to change our worldview so the fact "fits".
Consider the following example:

A man in a mental institution believed he was dead; literally, he thought he was a walking corpse. The doctors tried to convince him he was alive, but he persisted in telling them that he really was dead, that they were just incorrect and that he remembered dying and that they were all the problem; not himself or his perception of himself. One day one of the doctors got a bright idea. He knew that this gentlemen believed that only *living* people bled, so he reasoned that if he could just show the man that he bled, he would be *forced* to accept that he was really alive. He went to the man, sat down with him and set him up for the “conversion experience”. He discussed with the man the facts, and proceeded to then drag a small scalpel across the man’s palm. To the man’s surprise, bright red blood burst forth onto his hand, and dripped to the floor. The doctor looked at the man, a pleased and satisfied smile on his face and said: “See? You are definitely alive.” The man looked at the doctor, astonishment on his face and said with full belief and conviction: “I was wrong! Dead men *do* bleed!”

In the case of this man, he had two sets of beliefs; one that he was already dead, and one that only people alive actually had blood in their veins (so could bleed). When faced with the realization that he bled, he had to make a choice as to which of his beliefs he would give up. As we can see from the story, it is obvious which of his beliefs he sacrificed.

What does this mean for Christians? Does the Bible have anything to say about "worldviews" or is it silent on this subject (that in and of itself is a "worldview" question, for I believe that the Bible is not silent on any subject)?

Paul writes to the Romans:
2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, [Rom 12:2]

and to the Colossians:
8 Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ. [Col 2:8]

and to the Ephesians:
17 This I say, therefore, and testify in the Lord, that you should no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind, 18 having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart; 19 who, being past feeling, have given themselves over to lewdness, to work all uncleanness with greediness. [Eph 4:17-24]

Jesus Christ tells his disciples:
37Jesus replied: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' [Matt 22:37]
From those few passages of Scripture (and there are many more) it is clear that Biblically, we are to give our mind to Christ, not to the world. We are also not to "walk" and "act" like the Gentiles who have had their "understanding darkened" and are "blind" in their heart.

2) "in terms of which all experience is related and interpreted"
This means that everything we experience is "fed" through our worldview; it is like the "glasses" through which we see the world.

We all have a worldview; we all have a way that we look at the world. In addition, we may not even be aware of some of our "presuppositions." Remember, they are "not tested by natural science." But where did we get our worldview? How is a worldview formed?

There are five basic ways in which worldviews are formed in us:

1. Informally: This is to say that we don't go to a specific formal "place" or establish a certain "ritual" whereby we receive or "develop" our worldview. We don't even know it is happening while it is occurring; in other words, we develop our worldview subconsciously. Knowing this, and knowing that as a Christian we have been instructed that we are "not to be conformed to this world" we must be especially careful where we allow ourselves to "receive input." In fact, Paul even provides this warning to us when he writes to the church at Colossi: "Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men" The Lord, through Paul, is trying to warn us: Don't think you can just let anything be before your eyes and not have it impact you. It can and will if you let it, so beware and be on your guard. "But I'm a smart person" you might say, "and I grew up in the church, so I know how to recognize a 'false teacher' when I see one." That arrogance brings us to the next way in which worldviews are developed.
2. Uncritically: It would be much simpler if when a component of our worldview was being "developed" it got "marked" in space before our eyes with a big exclamation point that said: "Warning! You are about to accept a belief that is contrary to Christ and His Word." but that is not how they are developed. They are developed "uncritically", which means you don't think real clearly as they are being developed. In fact, they don't even have to make sense. If worldviews had to make sense, how could Adolf Hitler have convinced 100's of thousands of Germans (some Christians) that Jews were not really people and could be experimented on? If worldviews had to make sense, how could we have people today (again, some Christians) who won't even find the behavior of the Nazis in Germany "morally repugnant" but instead will say: "I can't judge them, what they did was right in their time." If worldviews had to make sense, how could people develop prejudices about other people based on the color of their skin? How absurd is that? Again, many of the most racist members of the Ku Klux Klan were members of Christian churches. They obviously were not "thinking critically" when the accepted a moral position, that the Bible strictly forbids, when they adopted a position of prejudice against a fellow brother or sister in Christ because of their skin color! Which brings us to the next way that worldviews are developed.
3. Inter-generationally and Intra-generationally: Those are just two long words that mean: worldviews sometimes come from your parents (inter-generational) and sometimes come from those in the same generation as you (intra-generational). This is by design. It was God's plan that a Biblical worldview would be passed from generation to generation. Moses communicates this to the nation of Israel on the brink of their entering the promised land when he says to them: “Set your hearts on all the words which I testify among you today, which you shall command your children to be careful to observe—all the words of this law. 47 For it is not a futile thing for you, because it is your life" [Deut 32:44]. According to the words of Moses, the development of a Biblical worldview in our children is to be "our life." How much time does the "typical Christian" spend in "endeavors designed to jointly develop or apply [their] faith" apart from church activities? According to George Barna: less than 3 hours per month! For something that Moses says is "our life", it doesn't appear that the "typical Christian" is taking that task very seriously.
4. Over Time: Our worldviews are not developed in an instant; they take time to develop. Good times, bad times, times we can't remember, times we can remember and wish we could forget. It is for this reason, I believe, that Paul wrote: "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." [2 Tim 4:7] Paul recognized that giving up and letting the "world" consume him and "conform" him was not pleasing to God. He also knew that if he became a "friend of the world" he would become an "enemy of God" [James 4:4]. We cannot give up, we cannot just give in and embrace the world and believe since we were "saved" or "born in a Christian home" that we will come out on the other side of that sin unscathed. James writes: "4 Adulterers and^[a] adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God." [James 4:4]. James is serious: we cannot play "footsy" with the world; we are to impact the world for Christ, the world is not to impact us.
5. Miraculously: In my initial analysis of "worldviews" I left this one out, but it really is a factor and one that cannot be overlooked. If we are to believe that we are to "be transformed by the renewing of your mind" than we must accept the fact that a "biblical worldview" is not the default position we are born with. In other words, if "biblical worldview thinking" were normal to us, there would be no reason for us to "adapt" our worldview thinking when we came to faith. Do we do this on our own? No, because we can't. We don't even know many of our "presuppositions" that we possess, so how could we be expected to "change" or "adapt" them so as to be like Christ? Only through the power of the Holy Spirit can we "be transformed by the renewing of our mind" and "continue to work our [our] salvation with fear and trembling" [Phil 2:12].
   However, all of this requires us to be aware that a change is necessary and that we put an effort into that change. If it were possible for our "minds" to be transformed without our knowledge or effort, why would Paul command us to "be transformed by the renewing of our mind" and to "no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind" [Eph 4:17]. No, we must do our part, but what joy and encouragement that Paul also writes: "20 But you have not so learned Christ, 21 if indeed you have heard Him and have been taught by Him, as the truth is in Jesus: 22 that you put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts, 23 and be renewed in the spirit of your mind, 24 and that you put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness." [Eph 4:20-24] Just as we "put off" the old worldview that we learned in our sin, we must "put on" the new biblical worldview of Christ as we are "taught by Him" and by His Word.
   

It is my prayer that the church will wake up with regards to worldview. There are many brothers and sisters in Christ that I share a pew with each Sunday that are "asleep in the Light." Any challenge of their hedonistic and selfish lifestyles is met with a sharp rebuke about "legalism" if any response is given at all. In many cases, the response won't even be directed at the person presenting the challenge at all, but will instead be discussed in derision with an individual of like-mind behind the challenger's back.
It is my prayer that the Holy Spirit will provide boldness, gentleness and love to those who speak and a tender heart for those confronted.
It is with great comfort that James wrote the following words:

19 Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, 20 let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins. [James 5:19]

It is not an option for those that know the truth to remain silent, for how can we know what we know and not speak?

“Nothing can be more cruel than the leniency which abandons others to their sin. Nothing can be more compassionate than the severe reprimand which calls another Christian in one’s community back from the path of sin.”
-- Deitrich Bonhoeffer

My son's first camp experience...

My son, Caleb, returned from camp this week on Thursday. It was his first time at an over-night camp.

Upon arrival by my wife to pick him up, the first words out of his mouth were: "I hated it. I never want to go back."

Suffice it to say, my wife was a bit shocked, you see, she used to work at this camp, in fact, she worked at this camp for three (3) years when she was in her late teens/early twenty's. Even more, it was at this exact camp where she made the most important decision in her life: to accept Jesus Christ as her personal Savior.

I could tell you what he told us, but it would probably be better to just allow him, you see while he was there, he kept a journal of what took place (we taught him journaling a number of years ago). [Names have been obfuscated to protect their identity]

July 15, 2008:
"I found out 2 nights ago that every person in my cabin cusses except M---, and I think C---. Even A--- cusses. So far I am having a hard time here...I am the only one in my cabin who doesn't talk about how long it takes them to poop, how big their poop is and junk like that. It makes it hard to make friends when they act so immature..."
"A--- also punches me for no reason....I just bought candy. A---is being really annoying, he pushes me around for no reason. Yesterday he out of the clear blue started hitting me with the broom really hard..."
"Tonight at worship A--- sat downt he whole time and did not sing, he just chewed gum and D---fell asleep. A--- called me an idiot and gay 2 nights ago. Then he cussed at me. I have a hard time fitting in, I am the salt and light and it is hard when you are surrounded by darkness...."
"I just found out almost everyone in my cabin has/had a girlfriend (my cabin is 10-13) and they have girlfriends!"

July 16, 2008
"I really want to sleep in my own bed. Almost every person in our cabin is saying: 'Wouldn't it be awesome if we could bring our girlfriends and have sex with them..."
"Now everybody in my cabin hates me cause I fell and hurt my knee...All the people in my cabin think I look dumb cause I pull my socks up and tuck my shirt in..."
"This is so far one of the worst times of my life. A--- hated me from the first day. I wish I could go home. I never want to go to camp again."
"K--- also went on my bed with dirty shoes. Now he is teasing me about what I am writing in my Journal. Then he sat on my suitcase. He is being very annoying. He keeps looking at my Journal, then finally our counselor told him to go to bed. My suitcase is breaking because people (K---) sit on it!"
"Earlier K--- started pulling my socks down and all of them started yelling things like 'You'll never get a girl looking like that!' I said: 'I don't want a girl'
"My dad was so right. I can see why 95% of public school kids from churches will leave their faith by the time they are 18. I mean, A--- calls himself a Christian and he cusses. Everybody in my cabin does, except M---, Z--- our counselor and I."
"I want to go back to my Christian family. I think I know why public school kids don't miss their parents cause they are gone 8 hours a day for like 6 months. Homeschoolers are with their parents 24/7."
"Earlier today D--- said: 'I am not a virgin'"

That is just the items in his Journal; what he told us in person was more detailed.

And this was a "Christian" camp. All of these children were from "Christian" homes. Many of these children came with their church youth group. All of these children attend government schools (also called "public schools")

When I have conversations with parents about why we have chosen to homeschool our children, almost all of them say: "We send our children to public school so they can be 'salt and light' and influence the other children there."
Based upon my experience with their children, and the experience of my son, and the volumes of statistical data, I think there is definitely some "influencing" going on in the public school. The problem is that the influence is not the kind they want: Their "salt and light" children are being converted to secular humanism right under their noses.

"[P]ublic education is the parochial education for scientific humanism."
- Joe R. Burnett, the Humanist Magazine, 1961 [Exodus Mandate]

"[E]ducation is thus a most powerful ally of humanism, and every public school is a school of humanism. What can teh theistic Sunday School, meeting for an hour once a week, and teaching only a fraction of the children, do to stem the tide of a five-day program of humanistic teachings?"
- Charles F. Potter, Humanism: a New Religion, 1930, signer of the Humanist Manifesto

"Our schools may not teach Johnny to read properly, but the fact that Johnny is in school until he is 16 tends to lean toward the elimination of religious superstition"
- Paul Blanchard, as quoted by Blair Adams and Joel Stein, Who owns the Children, 1984

"I am convinced that the battle for humankind's future must be waged and won in the public school classroom by teachers that correctly perceive their role as proselytizers of a new faith: a religion of humanity that recognizes and respects the spark of what theologians call divinity in every human being...
The classroom must and will become an arena of conflict between the old and new -- the rotting corpse of Christianity, together with all its adjacent evils and misery, and the new faith of humanism, resplendent with the promise of a world in which
the never-realized Christian ideal of 'love thy neighbor' will finally be achieved."
[Emphasis added.]-- John J Dunphy,"A Religion for a New Age", The Humanist, 1983

You're a Christian; you love your children; you know that the Bible instructs you to raise them in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Yet, you send them for their education to an institution from which all vestiges of Christianity were driven out long ago. An institution that is also steeped in secular humanist and neo-pagan theologies.
That institution, of course, is a government school.

Do you really believe that sending them for 15,000 hours of "teaching" during their most fragile and impressionable years to an institution dominated by secular humanism and New Age paganism will not have an impact on them spiritually? Do you believe that we are not commanded to give our children an explicitly Christian education?

Consider the following scenario:

Imagine there is a disease that infects all humans. It is a very painful disease, totally debilitating and life destroying. In the end, the disease is fatal. You know the disease exists, you learned about it from your parents. You also know that there are treatments that can be used to prevent it from destroying your own children.

One of those treatments is quite simple, it is administered by the village leaders. It doesn't require much work on your part, in fact, during the time of administration, your children aren't even around, they are even fed by the village leaders. But there is a downside: it only has about a 8-12% chance of success.

There is another treatment, however but it is much more complicated and involved. It requires daily dosage monitoring and a substantial amount of time investment with each child. You know that those parents who have chosen this treatment usually have less "riches" because of the extra time that it requires of them, but then again, it has a success rate of around 94%, they consider it a small sacrifice for saving the lives of their children.

The decision is before you: which option will you choose?

You know that Sally's children went through the village leader's treatment, and they seem just fine; none of her children have started to show any symptoms of the disease. You also know of Hank's children, his children are grown and have children of their own, and they also went though the village leader's treatment and have only a few symptoms, so it can't be all that bad.
The other treatment requires so much work and involvement and sacrifice, and besides, the village leader's treatment takes 10-12 years before we know if it is successful, it could be that by the time your children get through their treatment program, their success rate will be higher.
["Professing to be wise, they became fools, and changed the glory of the incorruptible God into an image made like corruptible man...And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting..." - Rom 1:22-23a, 28]

Who among us would even consider choosing the "village leader's treatment" with it's 8-12% success rate? Among Christian's in America: it is 85%.
85% of Christian parents in America send their children to be "treated" by the "village leaders" in their government schools, and 88-92% of those children leave their "faith" in Christ behind by their 19th year. [www.sepschool.org]

"Listen to the word of the Lord, O sons of Israel,

for the LORD has a case against the inhabitants of the land.

Because there is no faithfulness or kindness

Or knowledge of God in the land.

There is swearing, deception, murder, stealing, and adultery,

They employ violence, so that bloodshed follows bloodshed.

Therefore the land mourns. . .

My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.

Because you have rejected knowledge,

I also will reject you from being my priest.

Since you have forgotten the law of your God,

I also will forget your children.

The more they multiplied, the more they sinned against me;

I will change their glory into shame.

They feed on the sin of My people,

and direct their desires toward their iniquity.

And it will be, like people, like priest;

So I will punish them for their ways, and repay them for their deeds.

And they will eat, but not have enough;

They will play the harlot, but not increase,

Because they have stopped giving heed

to the LORD."

Hosea Chapter 4:1-10

Christian Church in America.

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